GOD'S WAY OR NO WAY!  

[Some good old fashioned teachings - on a take it or leave it basis.]

A new page to help you to find the right marriage partner for your present and eternal happiness.   Herein we shall quote some great principles to assist our readers in re-discovering God's marriage system and a way to find the happiness and fulfillment they desire.  From our hearts to yours.

This is a fundamental rights issue. [Remember the expression: if I knew then what I know now]?   Well, if we increase our knowledge, we increase our options and they give us the power to control and to live our own lives.  If we continue to allow others to keep us in the dark, we will miss out on many great and important things in life when it need not be so.  Let others have their own agendas and let us have our own.

Men and women have the right to enter into marriage agreements as they see fit . . . period!  These marriages are between them and God and have nothing to do with paying for licenses and gaining the approval of government agencies etc.  That is not supported in the Bible.  The only reason to play the government game is to make sure you get money when you get divorced or to keep up appearances in social circles like churches etc.

Does this mean that there marriages are unnecessary?  Nope!  You see, we get into the mode of following the blind leaders and in the process we lose our rights.   Marriage is ordained of God and is to be entered into His way.  Not all marriages are approved by Him of course and if they are not, they will not last past this life.  In fact, some forms of marriage are so offensive to God, that they will effectively damn the participants to having no marriages in the eternities.

Marriages can be forever, it is true.  However, only those which are entered into in God's way and then lived up to will be accepted of Him and allow to continue after this brief earth life.

If you want your marriage to last, then find someone with authority to perform a sealing and have your marriage blessed to continue into the next life.  There are men with such authority scattered here and there on the earth.  They are there to serve God and are not interested in making money from performing such sealings etc.   You can enter into a marriage for this life only and later, have a sealing performed to extend it into the next life.   A prayerful and unrushed process is necessary for you to know who has such authority.

Of course, you have to keep all of God's laws and ordinances to the best of your ability; which you can do if you really want to.  The sealing includes a covenant between you and God.  He will give you certain blessings conditional upon your faithfulness in keeping your part.  Men have no right to end such marriages; although they would not stay with an unfaithful wife.   On the other hand, women do have the right to end such marriages if they truly believe that their husbands are not faithful to the covenants.   the process of ending the marriage is more than just leaving the undesirable spouse.  The sealing must be cancelled before a woman can enter into another marriage of any sort. 

OPPORTUNITY  TO FIND A SPOUSE:    As far as plurality of wives is concerned, this is also between the couple and God and requires a great deal of love of God, love for each other and love for your neighbors; since this is a beautiful but, challenging experience.   It is not recommended for the faithless nor the selfish.